Spring Gala 2026
Feb. 17th, 2026 09:14 amSome Spring Gala links:
- the intro song that introduces the 4 locations of the year (Harbin, Hefei, Yiwu, Yibing): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=20s
- The thesis of the year, nominally a song celebrating tech advancements and smart devices, but featuring the words: "The future is already here, the product of hard work and intellect. Low-key yet clever. We are made in China" holy shit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=1734s
- kung fu robots: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=1425s (related: convenience store worker robot? https://youtu.be/AXf9vc_7Wgw?si=d-42NFLmpl7e4CO0&t=2781 snarky kid robot? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=691s )
- probably the most c-pop song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=2426s
- extremely hokey song about turning the Fu upside down: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpOF_7foKBQ&t=2029s (but also has the astronauts, and I always like the astronauts)
- Hmmm.... "Formosa Love Song", a segment about how Taiwan and Fujian are just separated by a small strait and are celebrating the spring together? Right a song honoring mothers? Featuring a bunch of Taiwan songs? Wonder what's going on here: https://youtu.be/MpOF_7foKBQ?si=Mh5W-ZaZXRPBOUZQ&t=3362
- cute "come to dinner" segment/ad 公益广告: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXf9vc_7Wgw&t=2299s
- a song celebrating labor and being creative: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXf9vc_7Wgw&t=1880s
- OMG the army one this year is quite ... intimidating: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5pzkcbSwcQ&t=567s
- here's the "we are all 1 china" one, with some great shots of infrastructure. Phases naturally into the new year countdown with shots of all the locations: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5pzkcbSwcQ&t=840s
- cute juggling one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5pzkcbSwcQ&t=335s
- utterly incomprehensible "horse dance": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5pzkcbSwcQ&t=2348s
- cute "sound of spring" orchestra/dance one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5pzkcbSwcQ&t=2608s
- what is masculinity, song one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXf9vc_7Wgw&t=983s , song 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z5pzkcbSwcQ&t=1529s (featuring bad CG of Xubeihong horses :( ) Does the weird horse dance count as masculinity song 3?
The ethnic minorities are integrated in an interesting way this year. Like, actual dance troupes from the actual regions, but not like, not as obviously labeling them? (Well, except the Mongolian one lol)
- a Xinjiang dance celebrating the silk road: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=3797s
- it's a song featuring little kids dressed as various ethnic minorities: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=4067s And the kids themselves are from Guizhou, so... sorta win?
- a song of farmers celebrating the harvest, featuring actual farmers from Ningxia: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpOF_7foKBQ&t=80s
- Mongolian folk song, featuring DeDeMa and actual people from inner mongolia! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpOF_7foKBQ&t=1670s , and starts in Mongolian
- a stomping-based dance-off between Spanish, Hungarian, and some Chinese ethnic minority dancers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXf9vc_7Wgw&t=4563s
Locations:
- Harbing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXf9vc_7Wgw&t=511s there's penguins? and of course ice skating, and Russian architecture, and also a parody of the winter olympics. And a giant digital snowman??? and ballet?)
- Yibing 宜宾 (Sichuan): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=3328s (some drumming, some robots, some robot pandas, a riverboat, some drones)
- Yiwu (Zhejiang): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpOF_7foKBQ&t=1213s (robot monkey king, and then Jackie Chan and Lionel Richie singing "We are the world" for some reason???
- Hefei (Anhui): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXf9vc_7Wgw&t=3853s (overly digitized, but also chinese opera? but also giant statue of 夸父 of all people? And a GIANT EYE of Technology???)
Gotta know Chinese for these:
- a surprisingly critical one of Chinese bureaucracy: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXf9vc_7Wgw&t=3152s
- cute 相声 about buying veggies: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PHGXOL3lcPo&t=2689s
TV Tuesday: New Look
Feb. 17th, 2026 11:48 am
Have you seen comics or video game adaptations you found well done? What about them worked for you? Or if they didn't, how did the shows fall short?
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Feb. 17th, 2026 12:42 pmI really have no idea what causes the onset of the pain. It first started about 30 years ago and happens intermittently, sometimes not for months on end and sometimes (like this year) about once a month or so. It's definitely outside my ear, right behind the upper part of the ear but radiating slightly downwards. I've had it looked at by two different dentists and by an ENT doctor, and none of them could find any possible cause.
Yesterday afternoon Eden assembled another Lego flower, but then declared she doesn't want to do any more, so I guess I'll be doing all the rest. After I've done one my fingertips are usually sore from applying pressure to tiny little parts as I try to get them to connect firmly, so I can't do more than one a day.
The Education Meme (Part 1)
Feb. 17th, 2026 05:00 pmAdults responsible for your care actively helped facilitate your early learning. (Reading at bedtime, playing educational games, going to child-friendly museums...)
Me: Yes - I was read to, played card games etc, and was taken places although child-friendly hadn't really been invented then. I do remember one gallery in the Science Museum in London with knobs to push and twist which was very exciting.
TS/TD: We always read to the kids, and they had educational games to play, which we played, and we went to various places, including seeing the mammoth in the National Museum Cardiff.
MH: Her parents have always read to her, played games and they go places like St Fagans National Museum of History
You had a library card.
Me: Yes. My mother would take me to the library in the town and once they built a new branch literally down the road from us and I was a bit older I took myself.
TS/TD: Yes. We either visited the mobile library which came to the village or we drove up to the nearby branch.
MH: Yes. TS takes her to their local library.
Adults in your life involved you in tasks that involved mathematical skills.
Me: No idea, but probably. Both my parents were accounts clerks so were used to working with numbers. I doubt they specifically considered that we did things involving mathematical skills, more that these things came naturally.
TS/TD: Again both husband and I worked with figures, so we tended to use them automatically rather than specifically.
MH: I don't know. But she's doing fine with numbers at school so I presume she does.
If you started falling behind in school, you received help from a private tutor.
Me: I didn't, and if I had that wouldn't have been possible.
TS/TD: It turned out that both were better at practical skills than purely academic ones. So we encouraged them in those areas. Their basic skills were fine so we never felt the need to push, which since both were very determined, wouldn't have worked anyway. When I saw a teacher to discuss TD's post-16 prospects he asked me what grades she needed to get for her GCSEs. I told him and he said, 'and that's what she'll get'.
MH: As far as I'm aware she isn't. The school have provided extra support for her handwriting. (When TD had poor handwriting I resorted to bribery to get her to practise, which worked.)
You went to a well-funded school.
Me: I had standard state funded primary school, so have no idea. I do remember they had a rebuilding project at my first infant school (in north London). They knocked down one wall and we all had to stand on the other side of the playground - it was a while ago. Secondary was well-funded.
TS/TD: Yes. Their secondary school was well-funded and popular, which no doubt helped.
MH: Yes. She's due to go to the same secondary school as TS.
Weekly Shounen Jump, week of February 15th
Feb. 16th, 2026 11:13 amAlien Headbutt #2: Ah, okay, I see how this is going to go, hype pro wrestling fights but with the stakes being "real," against invading aliens. So far so good, no government agency coming in to make it boring! I think this can work for me, so I'll stick with it for now.
Hima-Ten! #78: The date was fun! Honestly it's hard to decide who I'm rooting for, Honoka or Himari. They're both great! What I really want is a throuple ending tbh, but that is never going to happen. I think I ought to write some fanfic for this fandom tbh, the throuple ship is not leaving me alone. I love the idea of Himari being the third added to Tenichi/Honoka, but I also like the idea of Himari and Honoka coming up with the idea together to both date Tenichi and then they go to him with their idea and it slowly goes from a V to a throuple.
Kagurabachi #112: Okay, phew, to be continued! End of part one! I'm so glad that the series isn't over, and I'm excited to see where it goes in part two! I hope that the mangaka gets to take a break for a while before continuing with part two, burnout is no joke and WSJ's pace is just so much for one person to handle. I like that Chihiro is returning to sword forging! I like that for him. I'm excited to see the sword that he makes!
Kinato's Magic #3: Hmm, it looks like this really is going to be about how Kinato uses his magic not to heal, but to defeat monsters. I guess I really should have seen this coming since it's a WSJ manga, but I got really excited at the first chapter with him being a healer! I wanted him to stay a healer... that would have been really cool imo, but it doesn't look like that's how this series is going to go. Oh well! I'm dropping it for now, but if I hear good things about it in the future I might pick it back up.
Forsquares Masterpost: misc vol2.
Feb. 17th, 2026 04:45 pm21-27 archer
45-67 borgen (I fucked up the code and I ain't cleaning that up :p)
68-74 cougar town
75-82 damages
83-105 leverage
106-110 the middleman
111-121 misfits
122-140 the walking dead
( Ma'am, specificity is the soul of all good communication. )
and yet... (I miss my mother)
Feb. 17th, 2026 09:59 amJesse Jackson ran for president twice, in 1984 and 1988, during the Reagan years. I remember a conversation in my grandmother's kitchen, with my grandmother saying that she didn't think Jackson should be president. I remarked that people were suggesting that he should be the "drug czar." My mother said she thought he would do a good job. It didn't happen. Probably nobody would actually have done a good job at that goofy post, part of the Reagans' (plural) useless drug policy.
Doing tax prep, I have also been thinking of my mother. My parents paid an accountant a lot of money to prepare their taxes, but they were required to fill in a workbook with any/all relevant information. I felt that they were doing most of the work, but they were never audited, so he must have copied the info into the right slots, at least. When my mother became too tired to do all the prep and turned it over to me, she said "you need to buy some yellow legal pads." This had been her go-to for doing all the lists and calculations before submitting the workbook. I told her that I would do all the listing and calculations on Open Office documents instead. I type much better than I write, for one thing. But as I was starting to work on my taxes this year, I wandered into what used to be Arthur's office without thinking, looking for a legal pad on a shelf. That bookshelf is gone. I looked around vaguely and didn't find a yellow legal pad anywhere else. Do I have (now Libre) office documents and spreadsheets to use? Yes, but I also am writing some things in a (white, spiral-bound) notebook. I misuse the title of Nancy Friday's 1977 book "My Mother, Myself" fairly often, but here I am again, doing it.
Have any dr rdrz come across this?
Feb. 17th, 2026 03:05 pmHave only just discovered that there is a new (came out in November) biography of Decca Mitford: Carla Kaplan, Troublemaker: The Fierce, Unruly Life of Jessica Mitford.
Via a review in the latest Literary Review which is, alas, not fully online, sounds less than whelmed, and gives the impression that it may be a tad po-faced.
Yes, about Jessica Mitford, that great tease.
Can't find any other unpaywalled online reviews of any great credibility - there are some on GoodReads but they all sound to be from people who Nevererdofer previously.
So before I, that already have several of her own biographical works and essays, collections of letters etc upon my shelves, also the previous biography, spend moolah and time on this, I wonder if anyone has already read it and has opinions?
(Have just had thought that as far as I recall, Upton Sinclair's Lanny Budd did on at least one occasion encounter Unity Mitford, while undercover in Germany: but not, I think, Decca &/or Esmond, anywhere in his exploits.)
composed in my head, will I type and include photos?
Feb. 17th, 2026 08:39 amLunar new year
Cuba
paradancing teams
not para teams doing very pointed dances about ICE in DC locations
Switzerland - neutral or not? Political commentary during Olympics, vs CBS trying to silence Colbert again in other political news
Lots of other people will presumably post about Robert Duvall and Jesse Jackson, so they aren't on my list.
Current listening
Feb. 17th, 2026 08:18 amHere are a few things that I have on heavy rotation.
TWS has released the Korean version of the Japanese debut song: 다시 만난 오늘 [Nice to see you again (Korean ver.). The original Japanese version is one of my favorite TWS songs, so I quite enjoy the Korean version too, once my brain got past the inevitable linguistic confusion of hearing a different version of a familiar song. They did a short round of promos on Korean music shows, and it was fun to see how they added small easter eggs to the choreography for each performance.
Dokyeom and Seungkwan, the two main vocalists of Seventeen, released a unit album last month. It's packed full of songs to show off their voices. The title track is Blue. I also quite like Seungkwan's solo track, Dream Serenade, and the b-side, Prelude of Love.
I've also being doing a deep dive into all of ILLIT's 2025 music, and I really missed a lot! I really love their entire June 2025 EP, bomb, but if you need a more specific starting place, try 빌려온 고양이 (Do the Dance) or bamsopoong.
I'm also listening to NMIXX's Blue Valentine.
What are you listening to lately?
Happy Year of the Horse! Have Some Horse-Centric Queer Books!
Feb. 17th, 2026 08:13 am
Happy Chinese New Year everyone! We picked our brains to think of queer books in which horses play a prominent role, and we were honestly shocked by how much trouble we had thinking of any, but we managed a list of five! It’s a little astonishing to us, collectively, how many of us were horse girls and now a. can’t think of any books with horses we’ve read recently and b. aren’t girls. ANYWAY. This is our third Chinese New Year list; you can also check out our list of books for the Year of the Dragon (2024) and for the Year of the Snake (2025).
The contributors to the list are: jumblejen, Cedar, Shea Sullivan, Linnea Peterson, Shadaras.
Across the Green Grass Fields by Seanan McGuire
“Welcome to the Hooflands. We’re happy to have you, even if you being here means something’s coming.”
Regan loves, and is loved, though her school-friend situation has become complicated, of late.
When she suddenly finds herself thrust through a doorway that asks her to “Be Sure” before swallowing her whole, Regan must learn to live in a world filled with centaurs, kelpies, and other magical equines―a world that expects its human visitors to step up and be heroes.
But after embracing her time with the herd, Regan discovers that not all forms of heroism are equal, and not all quests are as they seem…
Of Fire and Stars by Audrey Coulthurst
Betrothed since childhood to the prince of Mynaria, Princess Dennaleia has always known what her future holds. Her marriage will seal the alliance between Mynaria and her homeland, protecting her people from other hostile lands. But Denna has a secret. She possesses an Affinity for fire—a dangerous gift for the future queen of a kingdom where magic is forbidden.
Now, Denna must learn the ways of her new home while trying to hide her growing magic. To make matters worse, she must learn to ride Mynaria’s formidable warhorses—and her teacher is the person who intimidates her most, the prickly and unconventional Princess Amaranthine—called Mare—the sister of her betrothed.
When a shocking assassination leaves the kingdom reeling, Mare and Denna reluctantly join forces to search for the culprit. As the two become closer, Mare is surprised by Denna’s intelligence and bravery, while Denna is drawn to Mare’s independent streak. And soon their friendship is threatening to blossom into something more.
But with dangerous conflict brewing that makes the alliance more important than ever, acting on their feelings could be deadly. Forced to choose between their duty and their hearts, Mare and Denna must find a way to save their kingdoms—and each other.
Valdemar: The Last Herald-Mage Series by Mercedes Lackey
Though Vanyel has been born with near-legendary abilities to work both Herald and Mage magic, he wants no part of such things. Nor does he seek a warrior’s path, wishing instead to become a Bard. Yet such talent as his if left untrained may prove a menace not only to Vanyel but to others as well. So he is sent to be fostered with his aunt, Savil, one of the famed Herald-Mages of Valdemar.
But, strong-willed and self-centered, Vanyel is a challenge which even Savil can not master alone. For soon he will become the focus of frightening forces, lending his raw magic to a spell that unleashes terrifying wyr-hunters on the land. And by the time Savil seeks the assistance of a Shin’a’in Adept, Vanyel’s wild talent may have already grown beyond anyone’s ability to contain, placing Vanyel, Savil, and Valdemar itself in desperate peril…
The Immortals Series by Tamora Pierce
Young Daine’s knack with horses gets her a job helping the royal horsemistress drive a herd of ponies to Tortall. Soon it becomes clear that Daine’s talent, as much as she struggles to hide it, is downright magical. Horses and other animals not only obey, but listen to her words. Daine, though, will have to learn to trust humans before she can come to terms with her powers, her past, and herself.
Return of the Thief by Megan Whalen Turner
Neither accepted nor beloved, Eugenides is the uneasy linchpin of a truce on the Lesser Peninsula, where he has risen to be high king of Attolia, Eddis, and Sounis. As the treacherous Baron Erondites schemes anew and a prophecy appears to foretell the death of the king, the ruthless Mede empire prepares to strike. The New York Times–bestselling Queen’s Thief novels are rich with political machinations, divine intervention, dangerous journeys, battles lost and won, power, passion, and deception.
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I've had a letter from Buckingham Palace
Feb. 17th, 2026 12:03 pmI have had a reply.
Sadly it is marked "Private and Confidential" so I cannot tell you what it said.
I wasn't really hoping for a reply and the King now knows how I feel.
I will just have to hope that he does the right thing.
The only previous time I wrote to the Palace, the Queen was overtaken by events:
Boris resigned whilst I was at the post box !
(no subject)
Feb. 17th, 2026 11:16 amOn the whole, I'm inclined to think that if Sable wishes to urinate somewhere in our bedroom suite, the bidet is about the best bet. The shower would also do, but then she'd get her feet wet and leave unwelcome little footprints everywhere.
On the other hand—why? Sable, why? You have a litter tray and an entire garden, which have between them sufficed for several years.
Sigh. Cat urine is very pungent, and the anti-urine spray is not much less unpleasant.
*
Still. I woke up with a horrendous cold this morning so I'm probably not getting the full, er, impact of the smell.
*moan*
Drabblethon: Generous Hospitality: The Fantastic Journey
Feb. 17th, 2026 10:37 amTitle: Generous Hospitality
Fandom: The Fantastic Journey
Summary: The hospitality is welcome, but what will it cost the travellers?
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Feb. 17th, 2026 03:09 amSince I've been burnt out during the winter season, Three Sentence Ficathon has been a major help. I ended up having a lot of Moon RPG feelings so quite a number of fills are based on that game. ;; Then I took a break to do EAD Birthday Bash 2026, which was a lot of fun since I got to do silly paper plate art with markers. Everybody should read my Mouthwashing My Immortal masterpiece, buwahahahaha. It has to be the most fun I've had writing fic in a long time. XD With Birthday Bash over, I can catch up on 3SF and post all my fills. Sometimes even writing a single sentence is like pulling teeth, so if I actually manage to finish a prompt, it means a lot.
Animal Crossing 3.0 finally lets you store flowers and trees, which has been a major contributing factor to my burnout and inability to finish my island. And there's now slumber islands, so I can play with all the ideas I have bouncing around in my head without having to reset and do *everything* all over again. I can even build with friends! I just... have to find them, whoops. Gods I'm so lonely. ;; I learned how to find treasure islands so I'm basically catching up on everything and cataloging as many items as possible for building on dream islands. My museum is finally finished after forever. :P
Everyone has been shredding the latest Wuthering Heights movie, and dang, it looks as awful as it sounds. It's shitty enough that it makes me want to give the book another chance (and partly because some of Heathcliff's lines remind me of Buzzo being haunted by Lisa), but oof. The original book still employs one of my most Hated Tropes of All Time (The Misunderstanding, aka Person A conveniently hears just enough to believe the Person B hates them, and leaves right before Person B clarifies what they actually mean. I fucking despise it in Shrek, and I despise it everywhere else) And I don't know... a hated trope is like a turd in a otherwise fine bowl of cereal, you know? Once you know it's there, the turd overwhelms everything. D:
I'm still burnt out on everything, which really sucks. But at this point, I kind of have to push, you know?
2026/022: Boy, With Accidental Dinosaur — Ian McDonald
Feb. 17th, 2026 08:35 amUnder a high blue heaven, under the zealous sun, the kid and his dinosaur travel a hot, empty highway. [first line]
Tif (short for Latif) is an orphan of Arab descent, whose ambition is to become a buckaroo at one of the dino rodeos. The novella's opening presents him, with his dinosaur, on a journey: only gradually are we shown where he's going, and why -- and where he's come from.
This is the post-apocalyptic future of the country formerly known as the United States of America, now a dangerous wilderness of miliciano gangs, religious states, and aggressive Dominion raiders. Tif's parents were killed in the South Dakota purification. He's recently been sacked from Dino! Dino! after a Timursaur escaped and wreaked havoc.( Read more... )
The Sunnydale Herald Newsletter, Monday, February 16th
Feb. 17th, 2026 01:27 amFAITH: You gonna shrink me now? Is that it?
ANGEL: No, I just wanna talk to you.
FAITH: That's what they all say. And then it's just, 'Lemme stay the night. Won't try anything.'
~~Consequences~~
[Images, Audio & Video]

- Artwork: buffy girls! girls are so cool from Dec 2023 by cariacreo (Buffy, Willow, Faith, worksafe)
- Artwork: Made some valentines on Picsart by blazinwolve (Buffy/Faith, worksafe)
- Artwork: [Valentine, you're wicked gross] by hellyeahbuffysummers (Faith, worksafe)
- Artwork: Happy Valentine’s Day people! I am dozing off in bed to celebrate by artafix (Buffy/Spike, worksafe)
- Artwork: spuffy by idontexistbutwhodoes (Buffy/Spike, worksafe)
- Artwork: buffy in her destructive era by xevsfire (Buffy/Spike, worksafe)
- Artwork: happy belated valentine's day y'all by xaeyrnofnbe (Buffy/Angel/Spike, worksafe)
- Artwork: [Rupert Giles valentine] by hellyeahbuffysummers (Giles, worksafe)
- Artwork: spike x drusilla in Klimt style by milfzatannaz (Spike/Drusilla, worksafe)
- Artwork: "I'm going to be a mummy." Drusilla is preparing Darla's body for burial. by myboyknows (Darla/Drusilla, mildly NSFW)
- Moodboard: willow x buffy x tara by kyrt4t (worksafe)
- Moodboard: buffy x faith by kyrt4t (worksafe)
- Playlist: hey peeps! i made a wesley playlist! a ghost in the machine enjoy! by spectraldamian
- Gifset: febuwhump day sixteen alt - lazarus "Wherever I was, I was happy. At peace. I knew that everyone I cared about was all right" by solemnsalem (Buffy, worksafe)
- Gifset: You never did. (x) by andremichaux (ensemble, worksafe)
- Gifset: ELIZA DUSHKU as FAITH LEHANE BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER | 3.15 "Consequences" by elizadushkudaily (Faith, Buffy, worksafe)
- Gifset: Wesley Wyndam-Pryce in ANGEL. Ruminating. by mycatismyfriend (Wesley, mildly NSFW)
[Reviews & Recaps]

- *Contains spoilers* So I finished watching "Angel" and I really liked it. by glamandillusionz
- Thoughts on rewatching S2E16, “Bewitched, Bothered, and Bewildered” (2/4): Why is this episode so bad? by btvsfemslashenjoyer
- OK, the thing about Bewitched, Bothered & Bewildered is that it is a bad episode. Bad in three separate but (I suspect) related ways. by coraniaid

[Recs & In Search Of]
[Community Announcements]

- otherworldly_chemistry: 2026 Spring Fling Exchange [Buffyverse rarepair exchange with the theme of spring and/or romance!]
- fandom10in30: Round 062: Hearts N Flowers [Icon challenge]
- fic_promptly: Challenge Week 02.26 - Day 1
- comment_fic: Tuesday :: Texts From Last Night

[Fandom Discussions]

- [Tarot card reading] knight of pentacles [and multiple other readings posted] by slayerofcups
- it’s honestly insane to me that we never learn the name of the romani girl that Angel murdered. by lilyelisabeth
- Thoughts on rewatching S2E16, “Bewitched, Bothered, and Bewildered” (3/4) [Amy Madison becoming a witch] by btvsfemslashenjoyer
- [what happens to Jenny in "Passion"] really is so heartbreaking by floralgreenery
- [Buffy vs Faith parallel reactions] by fictiongods
- For a guy so concerned with like germs and crumbs and messes... [The Mayor] by fictiongods
- anya jenkins from buffy the vampire slayer :] "I don't talk to people much." by your-fav-is-autistic
- So I have this headcanon characterization that I can never shake free [about Spike and onscreen Spuffy] by vampmissedith
- POLL: Could They Win Survivor? [Angel] by couldtheywinsurvivor

- Fallout anyone? [Jane Espenson is a show runner and other BTVS connections] by Alixen2019
- What are some small, insignificant things that annoyed you about the show? [BTVS] by HomarEuropejski
- In "Crush", why does Buffy let Drusilla and Harmony just slink away? by hospitalsinwinter
- Joss addressing how the cast and crew found out the show was ending by solacesilence
- Something I wish they could’ve explored more [about the Scoobies' memories of Dawn] by Seed0fDiscord
- S7 Joyce - The First?? by gutterp3ach
- Buffy punching Faith in "Empty Places" justified or not? by jdpm1991
- [Do you think that the big fight in Empty Places was intentional buildup] to the Buffy/Spike scene in the next episode? by negratengoelalma
- What are some small, insignificant things that annoyed you about the show? [ATS] by HomarEuropejski
Not quite 365 days questions meme february
Feb. 16th, 2026 11:01 pmI'm a water dragon.
Animal: Dragon
Element: Water
Polarity: Yang
Personality traits: ambitious, intelligent, and energetic. The water tempers the fire in the dragon. I'm supposed to be more calm, and flexible.
Compatibility:dragons are traditionally most compatible with the Rat and monkey, while often clashing with the Dog. My hubby of 56 years is also the Water Dragon. Dang it he's not a rat or a monkey. 😂 we probably won't last. Hahaha.
2026 60 questions meme.
Feb. 16th, 2026 10:48 pmMost people know this but just in case I'll mention it tonight. I write children books. I have four published.
1. The Well-Mannered Giant. This one is a favorite of mine.
2. Ride, Rocky, Ride. Very cute one.
3. I Thought I Saw a Lion.
4. A Calf named Boo. My 2 year old great-granddaughter walks around the house carrying it and recites some of it as she walks. She's so cute. And that makes me feel so lucky.
I have six that I'm working on right now. They are going to be so dang cute. Has anyone else written children books? Mine usually rhyme. My grandkids always loved that part.
Airplane seat cushion help
Feb. 16th, 2026 08:44 pmI was hoping someone on my friend's list has tried a few cushions or has a favorite they'd recommend for long haul air travel? Like 12 hours and more air travel?
Living in Alaska long flights are the norm but I think I have to accept I'm growing older and traveling is painful.
I'd appreciate any and all advice! Sadly getting out of the plane and swimming the rest of the way won't work....
Weekly-ish Update, 2/16/26
Feb. 16th, 2026 09:18 pmI have now worked 8 days in a row, and will hit 11 before I get a day off. I wasn't supposed to work on Saturday, and in fact had Many Things Planned, which got kiboshed when I got asked to come into work. Le Sigh. At least I got a few things done that have really needed doing, like cleaning the bathroom and changing my bed sheets. It wasn't even really necessary that I went in on Saturday, since I was scheduled for Sunday, but... argh.
Speaking of kiboshing things, last week I taught my therapist the word schlep. Apparently he has very limited Yiddish exposure, haha.
Shakes went well; we stopped right before the bear pursuit scene, because we want Allesy to get to enjoy it too since she's having a rough time of things right now. Everyone should get to experience "exeunt, pursued by a bear" at least once in their lives.
Happy stabby happened, and I checked in re: the referrals that are outstanding. They remain outstanding - the doctor's office said that they're taking at least a month right now, which is super sucky. You'd think that since one is for, y'know, a cardiologist, they might rush that one? But noooo. It would be nice to get in to see the hand specialist soon too, since I've run out of physio appointments until I get someone else to OK more visits. Then again, there hasn't seemed to be a whole lot more progress there, which is another reason I want to get in to the hand specialist soon. Would like less pain, thx.
Did not actually accomplish my goals this week, as I discovered that the P&L for Maureen is hella fucked, and I just... didn't with mom's stuff, heh. I did, however, read something not tax related! Huzzah! John Scalzi's Redshirts, which was a fun little book.
I finished yet another mini tax class thing, this one on military returns, so now I only have class to do before I level up again. Boss wants me to get to level 4 before next season, which apparently is gonna be doable considering I'm so close to 3 and will have... most of a year to finish 4. Once I hit 3, I can get small business certified. Level 4 brings advanced small business certification and Tax Pro Reviews, which is where the $$$ are, supposedly. Boss is also still making noises about training me to replace her when she retires, which... I don't know if I want to do that.
We finished watching The Day of Becoming You, which was a fun little het romcom with bodyswappping, which I suppose makes it inherently queer in a way. The actors did a pretty darn good job of playing each other, which when one was Zhang Xincheng, I expected. Not sure what our next show is going to be. Maybe we'll just do a few movies or something until after I get back from Escapade.
Speaking of! Escapade is this weekend! I Am Excite! I still haven't got my stuff together for the art show, but I got a few things mostly finished up today, and will hopefully have some non-raining time tomorrow before work to get some pieces out of the shed to list for the show. I'm not sure what to bring this year; I feel so out of the loop re: fandom and creativity and everything.
And tomorrow is LNY! I don't have anything to give anyone, but then again, I am not the boss so I don't have to! I'm hoping that I can make it to see Z1L's new movie after Escapade, but it would mean leaving pretty dang quickly, which is never ideal. I like seeing mah frends! But Z1L!
Goals for the Week: actually get everything prepped for the weekend (record hymns, art show, pack). survive the Big Bosses' visit tomorrow. try to get one of the two P&Ls actually finished, aiii.
Good Things: hummus. massive chocolate chocolate chunk cookies. rain at times I'm not driving.
abdicate
Feb. 17th, 2026 12:00 amMerriam-Webster's Word of the Day for February 17, 2026 is:
abdicate \AB-dih-kayt\ verb
Abdicate usually means “to renounce a position of power, such as a throne, high office, dignity, or function.” It can also mean “to fail to do what is required by (a duty or responsibility).”
// I know many challenges lie ahead, but I take this role on willingly, and will not abdicate my responsibility.
Examples:
“The story revolves around a plan by dark forces to kidnap the royal heirs and force the prince to abdicate his throne to an evil wizard.” — Screen Daily, 5 Jan. 2026
Did you know?
Give it up for abdicate, a word powerful enough to undo a coronation. If you need a term to describe formally throwing in the towel, this one should prove—perhaps ironically—a royal success. Coming from the Latin verb abdicāre, “to resign, renounce, withdraw,” (which traces back to the verb dīcere, meaning “to speak, state”), abdicate is used primarily for those who give up sovereign power or who evade a very serious responsibility. English has dīcere to thank for a variety of other words, among them dictate, contradict, prediction, and the crown jewel of them all: dictionary.
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Feb. 16th, 2026 11:55 pmThis makes me miss Word Pad, ngl. It wasn't perfect-- I hated having to reset my margins every time-- but it was straightforward and had an inbuilt word counter. That's all I really need. I remember when I used to just have layers of folders for different collections of wips. Ah, those bygone days. I wouldn't mind something a bit more sophisticated, mind you. I've seen some programs that seem to have some really neat organizational options and I think something like that could be helpful with some of what I want to do. But I kinda just want something simple again.
Idk, do any of you guys use anything fancy for writing?
Had to get away for the day
Feb. 16th, 2026 11:19 pmI did get myself a Hillbilly hot dog. Which one, they ask as I stand there in my Mothman shirt. Mothman, naturally.
My pull list at the comic book store is done. I'm almost relieved. Found a new one but we'll see. They did have one Hazbin Hotel funko. Vaggi. I looked around for Angel for my friend's daughter. (I personally find Funkos horrifying) Nada.
I picked up a 100$ overpriced Christmas wreath at Michaels for the 25$ it was probably worth.
And then I got mad at Macy's. I look around. It's been redone. I can't see the plus sizes. I ask.
Oh we're not carrying plus sizes any more.
Murder or shock or something must have showed in my face and she babbles. 'oh wait there's still some.'
She points to two fucking racks in the back. What the actual fuck, Macy's? I know the brand is struggling but I HATE buying clothes online. You have to waste all those resources packaging it, gas in shipping it only to find out it doesn't fucking fit or the fabric is a nightmare and have to re-waste all those resources sending it back and most plus size catalogues DO NOT have free shipping/returns such as Roaman's and Woman Within.
This store's ground level floor had been one quarter plus size just a few months ago. I DO NOT know if this is just this store is all of Macy's doing it(I was just at the one back home with it was more like half was plus). This makes NO sense. Why in the world if you're struggling do you wipe out a huge chunk of your patronage. And especially in Huntington WV. I don't know who/why someone does research on the fattest town in America but it's been Huntington WV more times than it's not.
I'm hoping it's just them like the fucking Nordstrom Rack in Columbus OH. I know my friend, JK says Nordstrom carries plus sizes in Boston but Nordstrom did the same thing in Columbus. Went from a full section to a small section to 2 racks to nothing. Kohl's has a pathetic plus section (mostly work out clothes, nothing I could wear to work) Guess I'm back to shopping JC Penny's after 20 years and whatever bizarre shit Tj Maxx has.
Speaking of that, I went to TJ Maxx/Homegoods which was being worked on and I forgot to look for the two damn things I went there for but got more woodened utensils and another sauce pot (there are reasons but they are bad ones) and all kinds of fun goodies, mostly from Italy one of which JK would probably fight me in the store over, cannoli filled with pistachio cream and some whiskey and strawberry margarita filled chocolates, Faze(?) from Finland. Both are so good I was eating them like a feral raccoon in the car if there had been more I would have went back for them.
It's music monday 30 weeks of music. This week's prompt is 14 you enjoy that’s in a different language Share your faves too. I know Suzume will be here with some but I'm waiting on my kPop friends to shine too.
( I'm breaking this into two under here, the rock-pop ones and the country )
here's the whole prompt list
( It's under here )
DAY 14 - FIC - INUYASHA - KAGOME HIGURASHI
Feb. 17th, 2026 01:48 amTitle: Homesick
Fandom: Inuyasha
Characters: Kagome/Inuyasha
Rating: Gen
Summary: Home is where the heart is, so they say. Then what about Kagome, who had two homes, separated across time. Never to return to one?
Or Kagome feels homesick.
Story in ao3
This was so much fun, thank you for the challenge! It's the first one I ever fully completed and it motivated me to go back to drafts and pieces I gave up on (some from over a decade ago)! Loved the experience and looking to join again next year!
I'm still new to the dreamwidth community (and current fandom in general) so if there are more challenges like these please let me know!

