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kitewithfish: (sleepy eddie)
 I didn't quite mean to go dark! 

Work:
The Powers That Be determined that, in addition to our normal fundraising divisions, we're also going to be focusing on fundraising for a few particular programs and have created new collaborative teams across divisions to target those fields. This seems like a potential disaster to me - our leadership tends to lean hard on Big Ideas and not actually doing any thought about how they'll be implemented, and this seems like basically adding a major project on top of a major panic on top of a major disruption. My organization has never had a large number of people working remotely, and a huge number of our fundraisers are untested in their efficacy at fundraising while 'social distancing'. 

The impact on my workload is not clear - largely, it just seems like everyone is constantly setting up new plans and then tossing them aside and demanding that my team pivot to give them new information on short notice. 

Dog:
She's recovering well from the allergies and the first round of steroid treatment is getting tapered off. Her skin on her face and paws looks less red, and the rheumy, teary eyes that were a major feature of her first few days with us have tapered off dramatically. 

But new dog ownership is humbling.  I fed her apples, which she adored as a treat but which seemed to trigger a worse allergic reaction that evening in a way that really hadn't happened before, so she may be allergic to apples.  We totally fucked up on feeding her correctly - the discussion we had with the shelter people and my notes gave me the wrong idea entirely. We had to refer to the old vet's instructions, which had abbreviations in Latin about how many meals she should be taking per day, in order to figure out that we were essentially shorting her a meal's worth of food every day. I feel generally awful about it, but there's no fixing the past, just making the future better. We figured that out on Friday - so we've had a couple of days of the right diet and she seems to be a bit calmer, generally.

Some things remain well sorted! She's doing fine with the crate in the bedroom, she's playing with us a bit, and she's done actually a very good job of letting us know when she needs to go out to relieve herself. (Tho given that her signal for that is, Go stare at the humans and whine like they have food you want, it's sometimes a process of elimination that she needs to engage in a more literal process of elimination.) 

Mental Health:
The Partners In Health advice I mentioned in my last post was very very helpful. The idea of budgeting my news intake has been very helpful - instead of reading story after story about Covid and social distancing, I check my local area papers for updates, read the important things, pick one or two short human interest stories to read, and then stop and do something else - usually I go walk the dog. 

I have received my delivery of fabric from my Local Yarn Shop (which is also a sewing machine salon) and I'm planning on spending a good deal of this rainy day making cotton masks that I will mostly donate to the stockpile for local hospitals to hold in reserve.   

I am also using a fabric mask when I go to any place where I'm going to be around people. When I come home, I enter the house via the basement side door, strip off my outside clothes directly into a waiting wash bag,  wash my hands and face in the sink down there, and come up from the basement in my undies and shoes to change into indoor clothes. Given that our basement is unfinished, and mostly used as storage, I feel very lucky to have that as a transition space to keep a buffer. 




Media I am Currently Enjoying:
-The Magnus Archives: a technically horror podcast that doesn't actually scare me much so far because it's all in the form of a dude reading a report of someone who survived a weird encounter with the supernatural.  I am on season 1, and just finished the episode Piecemeal. Listen here
-Schitt's Creek is a Canadian TV show about a super rich family who lose all their fortune in the first ten minutes of the pilot and have to go live in a small town and learn about themselves. The show actually seems to be nailing the elements of character growth and the second season is showing these people, never unredeemable, starting to really care and be engaged in the life of the people around them. I really like that this is not a sitcom where the family all hate each other and are unkind - they are not! They are shallow and selfish and disengaged from each other at first, but have a strong affection that keeps it from becoming awful. These people are blossoming before my eyes. We call that Growth.gif. Good for comfort watching in social distancing. 
-Brooklyn 99 - Adorable and kind to each other. I love it. An ongoing fave. 
-The Bon Appetit Test Kitchen Team are all cooking at home! Watch it here! 
kitewithfish: (john constantine cannot believe this shi)
It's been a rough couple of days, personally, and I am going to pass along this set of tips from Partners In Health, aka, the people who help doctors share information. PiH are "a Boston-based nonprofit health care organization founded in 1987. The organization's goals are 'to bring the benefits of modern medical science to those most in need of them and to serve as an antidote to despair.'"

Honestly, I could use an antidote to despair, so here's some of their guidelines.

Top 10 Practices:
1) Social distancing does not mean emotional distancing; use technology to connect widely;
2) Clear routines and schedule, seven days a week, at home—don’t go overboard;
3) Exercise and physical activity, daily if possible;
4) Learning and intellectual engagement—books, reading, limited internet;
5) Positive family time—working to counter negativity;
6) Alone time, outside if possible, but inside too; but remember, don’t isolate;
7) Focused meditation and relaxation;
8) Remember the things that you really enjoy doing, that you can do in this situation, and find a way to do them;
9) Limit exposure to TV and internet news; choose small windows and then find ways to cleanse yourself of it;
10) Bathe daily, if possible, to reinforce the feeling of cleanliness.
 
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Doggo updates: 
So, doggo had a visit to the vet! Partially just to get an exam, and particularly because we noticed her limping and obsessively licking one paw.

Turns out, the vet thinks it looks like she has some skin allergies - not uncommon in pitbull mixes, they have sensitive skin, and not uncommon in dogs that are recovering from food deprivation - so she has now has some pills to take in the day and an antibiotic mouse to get patted onto her feet.  The particularly sad paw had a pustule that is consistent with the kind of minor skin infections common to dogs with skin allergies. 

Fun fact: she does NOT like having her feet touched with wet things. This is the only thing she has snapped about. Touching feet - of concern. Wet things on feet: Hard No. 

And then once she ran away from us with one partially damp paw, she sneezed so hard that she bonked her nose on the floor. 

So, that was yesterday.

I will social distance!: 

Enjoy this absurd song! - I Will Social Distance, by Randy Rainbow https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WimbyL_25Nw

There's a part of me that realizes a dog is an excellent companion for social distancing, because she has given me and the husbeast a project to work on together that distracts us from the larger anxieties we are facing, and makes us a team together to handle the troubling situation. Plus the exercise and the excuse to call my dad and be anxious about the dog's poor little feet. 

In local news, since we are now under "Not Actually Shelter in Place," I also got a last minute pickup of some books and coffee beans I had ordered from my favorite bookstore/coffeeshop - so I have a lot of new Terry Pratchett books to get into, and some delicious coffee in store.

I also appear to have purchase NK Jemisin's newest book twice, once on Amazon Kindle and once thru my local bookstore, so. That's not something I intended to, but dammit, she deserves the money. 

The vet had the most clear Covid19 protocols of any place I had seen - they picked the dog up from the car, you sat outside and consulted with the vet on your phone, and then they brought the dog back. All in mask and gloves and vet scrubs. So we couldn't be in with the dog to talk to the vet, so it was probably extra stressful. 


kitewithfish: (sleepy eddie)
 So, the doglet had kind of rough evening, so we had kind of a rough evening, and so I am underslept and posting on dreamwidth.

Yesteryday, she curled up in her crate all day and went to sleep in it for the night with no upsetness. Getting her into the crate in the living room was kiiiind of a fail last night. She was bundled up on the couch on the blanket we gave her, and she required a lot of coaxing to get off the couch for her last pee of the night - she even growled at me a little! But, with bribery and some pets, she got down and I got her out, and with some more treat bribery, she got in the crate. 

And then she promptly kicked over the little dish of water I had put in. (It's not recommended, but I felt like I was being a bad dog owner to crate her without water.)  So I took her out and spent a few frantic minutes hunting down a big towel and mopping up the water and wiping off her bed so it wasn't sucky to have her sleep in it. But, eventually, I got her in the crate and snuggled in and went to bed. 

And all was reasonably well for a few hours! But around 4am she was whining and started to bark a bit. The husbeast got up and took her to the backyard for a pee and back in the crate, but she didn't calm down and go to bed after. We spent a pretty miserable hour waiting for her to calm down and telling ourselves we aren't being bad dog owners, that she needs to have some structure and talking about my dad's dog, who adores his crate and will hang out there all day. 

I consulted some stuff online, and after how cuddly she was yesterday, I made the call that she wasn't hurt or needing to go out, but that she was lonely and didn't want to sleep by herself. 

So, at four thirty, me and the husbeast slow dragged her crate into the bedroom, with her inside. She immediately calmed down! She went right to sleep! As did we. 

And come  6am, I rose from my bed like a zombie from a grave, fed the dog, gave her the anxiety meds she's been on, and took her on a walk with the husbeast. 

So I guess today's lesson is in forgiveness and humility and flexibility? Because the dog can't talk, and we still have to figure out what she needs.                                              


DOG

Mar. 19th, 2020 04:39 pm
kitewithfish: (Eddie brock is confused)
Ugh I had a nice long post about the new dog and life and everything going on in my life just now, and I ruined it. 

DOG:
She's a delight! She's been here about 24 hours, and most of them have been spent snuggling or sleeping with us. We received her crate a day early, in advance of her arrival by mere hours, which was great because she seemed to be a happy girl sleeping in her crate last night. We put a water dish in with her, and it seems to have worked well. We slept with the bedroom door open and she didn't even whine, just walked into her crate and settled in for the night.

I have done some legwork on the dog - she's got a license application and a trial of health insurance, and tomorrow I'm going to call some vets and see if they are actually seeing people. She came with a supply of anti anxiety meds - she's not the kind of dog who would really be happy in a kennel - so I'm fine for a couple of weeks but I don't want her to run out while she's in a new place with new people who don't know her history. 

She does have some behavioral things that we need to develop strategies to handle: she's a defensive barker, so she's getting a firm verbal correction when that happens, and we're working on being really firm on the bathroom training before we try her sleeping outside the crate. 

Work:
Working from home has resulted in an odd paradox, where the people who could easily do their office jobs remotely would be doing fine with the transition (minus adjustments like comfortable desks and chairs and children and otherwise managing their socially distant lives), except! The people whose jobs are to be enthusiastic extroverts in a professional capacity, they are simply melting down. They keep hosting stupid meetings and wanting to talk face to face - all the things that tell them that they are busy and doing their jobs, but actually mean they are bothering their coworkers and causing us to have to take time from getting shit done. 

Social stuff: 
I don't actually have a whole lot of structured social stuff going on, tho I have some standing hang outs with friends. I did a vestry meeting last week that went pretty well, but there's a lot of running around trying to compensate for the lack of being able to meet in person that feels just exhausting right now. 

Covid19: 
Eh, generally just kind of tired with it. I read some more stuff and it's making me wonder if my reasonable precautions are going to be insufficient - but I'm going to lean on social distancing to help as much as I can, and try to distribute money where needed to help out. I read some stuff about it being potentially viable in air for a while, more so than as droplets, and it's making me wonder if getting face masks would be worthwhile. I can make some out of scrap fabric if I need to - they're more to prevent me from spreading anything around by accident. But, who the hell knows. I'm just trying not to panic and be kind out in the world.

The only way out is thru and the only way thru is together. 
kitewithfish: (eddie brock drinks his tea)
 I think I am getting off this whole 'social isolation' thing relatively lightly.
kitewithfish: (john constantine is judging you)
A tactical challenge befell me this week - I'm getting a dog on Wednesday, but since I ordered a bunch of stuff for the dog online, it's arriving the day after.

Probably, this dog will be happy to sleep in the bedroom with us one night and we can start working with a crate in the living room in the next couple of days. 

Also, amazingly, the Covid19 epidemic has been pushed off the front page of the Boston Globe, in Boston, Massachusetts, where the governor has shut down Saint Patrick's day celebrations with an order to shut all restaurants and bars, by the announcement that Tom Brady, that dude who plays a sport, is gonna maybe retire or play that sport for some other team.

What the fuck are your priorities, Boston Globe. 
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The husbeast and I are both going to be working from home for the foreseeable future. There are some updates!

My job has a lot of people who have never used video conferencing unless it was set up for them by their admin staff, and now a lot of them are working from home and it's a fascinating cultural shift to watch.

-People have a WIDE variety of social norms about greeting people in a large meeting as they enter the group chat.
-Many people do NOT know how to mute their mics or turn off their cameras
-People do NOT know universally how to get their cameras set up 
-Meeting people's pets is the best part of this shift. 

I am really, really put off by business language that talks about this situation as "an opportunity." Just feels really tone deaf to me. 

Some other updates:

- A DOG HAS BEEN PICKED! We have met and picked a shelter dog to adopt, we need to have a meeting with a behavioral specialist to talk about some of her issues - she was starved, so she now has a lot of anxiety about food and will guard her bowl. She's semi-housebroken and we have some options there that will help. 
- We have purchased a lot of dog stuff online to be delivered. Hopefully, before the dog.
- We have bitten the bullet and purchased a proper desk and office chair to outfit the small bedroom/office space, which will go to the person in the house who has the most video conferencing to do in a given day. 
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My office has gone all virtual, and today has mostly been about training and also making contact with my co-workers to establish that sometimes we'll just reach out and talk to people. 

It's of course, only coincidence that I have been reaching out to video chat with the colleagues that I know have PETS. 

Yeah, the world outside is super dark and complicated and there's a real concern out in the world that a lot of people are going to be sick. But we are doing what we can to limit that, and we'll keep doing that. 
kitewithfish: (john constantine cannot believe this shi)
 welp. 

Yesterday, I had two worries: that my husband would get stranded in Europe  during his visit home, and that my job would continue the stubborn refusal to let people work remotely.

Today, my husband is still safely at home because his flight didn't leave until AFTER The Cheeto's announcement - he was able to get off before the plane left and come home.

Today, my office is officially moving to a 'everyone works from home if they at all can' and they are not asking anyone to stay beyond the end of the day. 

I might get a dog? 
kitewithfish: (Eddie Brock identifies as 'tired')
 My state has declared a state of emergency due to Covid19.

My husband is traveling to his home country of [redacted] which has some cases but not many and will be able to stay with family if he needs to stay for a prolonged period but, fuck I hate that idea a lot. 

My job at [redacted] university has shut down classes but is keeping dorms open for students so that's. Great. And staff levels are expected to stay at the same rate, which is STUPID, given we're being advised to avoid public transit just now.

I'm already exhausted and it's not even 3pm yet. 

I really wish someone competent would just make some goddamn decisions already. 
kitewithfish: (eddie brock; bisexual disaster)
 I have returned to work! Happily, I'm fine as long as I have cough drops and a cup of tea handy. 

Highly Recommended Entertainment for Sickies:
(When I'm sick, I can't really read. It requires more focus than my brain has. So, here, have some tv recs!)
  • The Good Place: Season Four: OH, my god. This is just deeply touching and KIND and so human. I had followed this little team of idiots thru three years of forking bullshirt and it paid off so well. This series has cemented itself as a firm reminder of the value of letting a thing end well. 
  • Supernatural rewatching - I had been on a speed run to catch up to the current season (15!) of Supernatural before the series ends, so I had gotten into the habit of sitting down and watching an episode per day for the last... eh, month or two? Now I am actually caught up, I started to re-watch a bit, starting with the season that I started with - season four! I have to say this, the last three seasons of SPN finally feel like they are being written by a team of people who have some interest in exploring the vast chasms of canons, and I adore that. The loose threads are being tied up! The plot holes are being patched! Season 14 and 15 have been in the firm Greatest Hits territory for the show. If that's your jam, it's a good time to catch up or rewatch and see if you still like it. 
  • The Untamed, which is slower going for me due to the fact that I don't speak Mandarin. Subtitles take a piece of media out of the 'watchable while super sick' category, usually, but this is still pretty fun and easy to follow when I was a little bit more together. It's delightfully goofy, tho, and if you are feeling lost with the first few episodes, just get to the end of episode two - a lot of show takes place in a prolonged flashback that starts in that episode. Once I made it there, I felt like I started to get a much better sense of the characters and the real dynamic of the show. Commentary on the social elements of the show has also been helpful - Chinese tropes are gonna be different than American ones, and That's Okay. 

kitewithfish: (Eddie brock needs help)
Oh my friends and oh my foes, I am weary of being sick.

I got home from a church organizing thing Saturday last week, saturated with human nature, and I found the husbeast in a state of flatness uncharacteristic for him. He was sick, and proceeded to be a sniffly Mofo all weekend.  I got groceries, made a vat of chicken soup, and hunkered down.

I have caught it and have either been working from home or taking sick days since Monday. He's worked from home and is largely recovered except for a dry cough.

It's not Covid 19, just a cold, the nurse hotline is pretty clear. But it wiped out my week and it feels like I just had gotten over the last one.

Unusually, everyone at work was very supportive of my working at home. I called into our weekly staff meeting and everyone was talking about how to prep for a potential command from on high  to work from home.

I am flat in bed and will probably be back at work Monday. Hopefully the generous vibe toward people taking sick days when they need them will continue past the current crisis.
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spent the weekend being sick. meh. on the mend but I have mostly been watching you tube videos and being a lump
kitewithfish: (john constantine doubts your life choice)
So, I was previously *aware* that on Twitter, companies just sometimes run searches for their name and respond to private conversations where no one has summoned them using their @twitterhandle, but it just happened to me for the first time. And I felt unexpected gross about it!

I was replying to a particular podcast where I wasn't getting the descriptions of their podcast with the episode. I could see it on the preview, but it wouldn't be there in full text. Since what I could see was "TRIGGER WARNING: " I figured I would let them know about the technical issue on Twitter.  I mentioned my podcast app in passing, to let them know what the issue was.

THE PODCAST APP'S TWITTER SHOWED UP IN THE COMMENTS TO TELL ME TO UPDATE AND REBOOT MY PHONE.

Like. No. No, you don't get to be damn Voldemort, you don't get to be Bloody Mary in the mirror - leave me well enough alone! I did not summon thee, foul fiend! This Twitter convo is not for you!

The worse part of this, is that I then proceeded up update the app and reboot my phone and the description problem completely went away. So I took a screenshot of the app's tweet responses, deleted the tweets to the podcast (who clearly were not having a technically issue) and went to complain to the podcast app's Twitter account about the interaction. 

And they were like, "Just trying to help!"  No. No, you get to help if I ASK for your help. You don't get to butt in without an invitation, even if your advice is useful and works. 

I AM AWARE  that this is a thing - that I am being ungracious! That this plays into an existing Cultural Thing in my region of the US where you don't talk to strangers in person! and you don't bother them! and you don't butt in to fix their problems even when you can do it easily because it's *insulting* to imply that you know better than them! 

Let me misuse your product in peace, you invasive weirdoes. 

UPDATE: [2 hours later] I have just blocked the Twitter account for the weird offputting podcast app, and blocked the strange White Knight who rode in with a Rick and Morty avatar to defend the weird practice. 

Remember, children, the best time to block an asshole is 20 years ago. The next best time is today. 


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Literally, actually, about the gloom - it's cold and drear as balls, kids.

Let's have some Real Life Updates!

Condo Flood Update: 

After last week's flood, the neighbors have apologized and paid for the stuff that was destroyed when our bathroom storage closet flooded from the pipe they broke in their DIY home improvement project.

As I now understand it, they were ripping up the floorboards in the attic and removing the insulation under them because they were told, by the contractor, that was part of the upcoming insulation project. It really did sound to me like Ms. Upstairs tried to dicker the contractor out of the need for the work, but, guess what, we live in A Cold Place and you DO NOT want your heat rising thru your ceiling to cluster under the roof.

So, The Upstairses were trying to be frugal and do the insulation removal (and maybe installation?) by themselves to reduce the cost - which is showing me, again, that Ms. Upstairs is a bit of an idiot when it comes to thinking about short term costs for long term benefit. We are getting a Very Reduced Price on this project thru our state's Green Energy Home Improvements process - a price that was further because the whole building is doing the insulation update at the same time.  So, instead of allowing the Trained and Insured Professionals handle this part of their job, they decided to remove the insulation themselves, which caused them to uproot the elderly, dead end pipe that was in their attic, which caused the leak. Their plumber has fixed it and removed the dead end pipe and all looks well. 

So, with the Condo Trustees (aka, the four of us) having met, cordial relations have been restored, we have some things on our respective To Do Lists, and things are presumably fine for the upcoming Insulation Project (This Time With Fucking Professionals, Jeez).

The question remains unaddressed, tho: DID they have the right to be doing construction work in the attic without talking to the rest of the condo trustees (aka, US) first? My reading of the master deed suggest that they really, really did not - the boundaries of each unit's domain end at the upper finishing layer of the ceiling, and the attic seems like it falls under the unenumerated clause of the "Common Spaces and Facilities" clause of the deed - certainly the pipe they hit did, as well as the structures of the roof itself. 

I did not bring this up at the meeting because, why make it contentious if you don't have to? and, now, understanding that they were pulling up insulation that they'd been discussing with the contractor as part of the approved insulation project, I felt like they might have a reasonable case to make that this would have been pre-approved as it were. But I don't feel quite easy about how to address it for next time, and I feel like a legal reading would side with my interpretation of the attic being part of the common spaces. 

This is all made more complicated by the fact that there is an Improvements Clause, that allows each unit to improve spaces that are attached to only their unit "with the approval of 50% of the condo trustees", aka, with just that unit's owners approving it. Initially, this seems to have been written to allow people to enclose their porches, if they want to, but would potentially cause trouble on the issue of their DIY project. Ugh. Thus, I am opting to leave the whole thing alone unless they make another foray into Stupid Home Improvements. 


Little Women:
I had a truly lovely Saturday of lazing about with my Husbeast. We went to see Little Women, which was entirely new to him. I cried, he cried, I crowed about predicting him crying, we sang the praises of Greta Gerwig and had a lovely dinner out afterwards. 

On the film Little Women, I was moved and delighted. It was fasted paced and gorgeous.  I have only vague memories of the book and slightly more structured memories of the 90's adaptation with Winona Rider. I thought Saoirse Ronan was an excellent, focused Jo, who felt Some Kind of Queer to me (Ace? Lesbian? Genderqueer? Unknown and unimportant to pin down!). I think that Gerwig successfully transferred the Great Romance of Jo's life to her writing, and its culmination in her published novel,  and moved away from the idea that Jo's Great Romantic Focus should be Some Dude. Florence Pugh as Amy was deeply felt and wonderful and well rooted. Laurie the Dude was, as always, kind of a consolation prize of a person - if Amy had just won the lottery, I would have felt better for her. All in all, it felt like the very best of Fix-It Fic - rooted in love of the source material, and willing to break the letter of the adaptation to fit the spirit. 

Church Stuff: 
I have accepted a position on the board of my little church, which I have been gently prodded towards several times before. But this was a chaotic good move - it was rooted in a general oozing towards interest in being on the board that has come up over the last few years as the leadership of the board has gotten younger and queerer and better populated with people I know and respect.  So, now I am on the board and will have some voice and voting to do. 

Since it happened rather quickly, I am now playing catch-up with what the board meetings are actually going to be like - apparently dinner and conversation and prayer make up the first hour's business, which makes me vaguely infuriated but I suspect may be crucial in getting anything done. People are bad at handling their feelings - might as well give them space to do it. 

The weirdness of this choice started immediately - my exist from the annual meeting at which I joined the board immediately ended with several people coming up and thanking me and talking to me in a way that I have scrupulously avoided. We'll see how that goes, but it might just be that this is part of the So Now You're Helping Organize A Church. 

Knitting:
I have hit a metaphorical snag in my lace project - one section is Uncharted, with only written instructions, which I irritates me beyond all reason. Every other section of this lace sampler has a chart! They are BAD, but they EXIST. I have been able to find a chart online for this pattern and I will see if I can adapt it to the written instructions, but I am miffed. 

My dishcloth project, aka, excuses to use up my cotton yarn, is producing scrubbies for family now, so it's relaxing and generally not too challenging. 
 

Fannish and Bookish Updates

I have been stuck on Soldier's Heart by Alex51234 as my reading for a while now - the updates are regular and good, so it's not that the author's done anything to me on that front! But I am just finding the headspace the writing puts me in so entrancing that I find it hard to break away from it. I end up reading chapters multiple times, and I'm debating starting the fic over to read it from the top. But I think I should hold out on that for the last couple of chapters, so I get to finish the fic with it fresh in my mind. 

I have also been reading A Private Reason for This by Femme (femmequixotic) which might make it into a rec list one of these days. I'm having trouble finishing it because I keep getting to parts where a character (and they are well done characters!) has a thought about themselves that is a little Too Vulnerable and I feel I have to look away in victorian prudishness at the humanness on display. I don't think of myself as being in Harry Potter fandom, so I'm honestly really enjoying this primarily as a detective story, but some of the elements of a well plotted crime tv series that I love just fall flat for me on the page. I don't read detective novels really at all. 

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 appears to be what my neighbors were thinking to themselves yesterday!

Personal Life Update: 

In a DIY project in the attic involving pulling up floorboards and insulation (why? We are having professionals come to the building for this in a week!), the upstairs neighbors in my building managed to dislodge an elderly pipe. They could see one end!

But, you see, the other was still attached to the water main. 

So I got text in church that was like, SO SORRY, CAUSED FLOOD, SO SORRY. And me and the Husbeast rushed back to the house to put down towels and sop up the muddy rusty water that had come pouring down from the attic thru the top of our hall closet. You know, where the water pipes and electric lines were run up thru the old chimney, and the fastest escape route from the attic for water that had been stuck in an old rusty pipe for years. 

The damage is minimal, happily. The neighbors got the main water cut off turned off for the house so the amount of water involved was relatively small for a broken pipe, and relatively confined. They got an emergency plumber in to figure out where they could shut it off more locally after a couple of hours, so we are all back to normal except for the storage space. We also go lucky on the amount of lots items - the closet held bathroom supplies and cleaning tools as well as some medicine cabinet overflow, and we had most of it still in ziploc bags from the move. So, while we lost a fair few things, a good deal of it was protected and can just be dried out. The interior structure of the closet is still damp, but we have a pair of fans running thru-out the day and it appears to be drying out reasonably well. 


But it was a day that was devoted to cleaning up other people's messes when I was already fairly drained from a week of family events, my sister's all-too-brief visit (when will I see her next? I DON'T KNOW, D:), the Husbeast being ill and hearing that his company was going to be doing layoffs (not in his department), and then THIS MESS. 

So, have some RECS:
 

Personality quiz: What is Your Daemon Quiz?  
Link: https://app.ex.co/stories/laurenb90/what-is-your-daemon 
Fandom: His Dark Materials by Phillip Pullman 
Why I love it: So, back in 1995, The Golden Compass by Phillip Pullman was a book I was slightly fascinated by, and when the first movie adaptation came out in 2007, there was a flurry of online fascination with the element of the book that fascinated me: daemons. A daemon (fyi) is like an Animal Companion (Luxury Model) in the universe for Pullman's book series, where everyone has an intelligent talking animal that attends them everywhere and serves as a metaphor for who they are as a person - in some ways, a daemon is an external extension of the human soul. There were a HUGE number of quizzes, most of them very bad. THIS ONE, however, is so good that it has made me literally nod and go YUP for the result of everyone I have known to take it. Make sure you take the second, shorter subquiz to get the most customized result. I got a goose, DANG, it fits, and this is just timely enough with the Untitled Goose Game (Woo, you have unlocked the secret BONUS REC, this game is addictively fun). It caused my mother to go, Hm, I don't think that's right! when she got her result, and man, did that result really fucking fit her. 

Fic: A Year In Toussaint by astolat
Link: https://archiveofourown.org/works/10941903
Fandom: Witcher (games, predates the tv show)
Pairing: Geralt of Rivia/Emhyr var Emreis
Author's Summary: Geralt had no damn idea what to do with a vineyard when Anna Henrietta gave him Corvo Bianco, but he figured it couldn’t be that bad.


Why I love it: So, I have not played the Witcher Games! But this is based off an expansion to Witch 3: Wild Hunt, called Blood and Wine, where Geralt fights vampires in fantasy!Tuscany. In this, Geralt semi-retires, becomes a stupidly successful wine producer to his great dismay, and gets very very bored. Then the Witcher's version of Caesar moves into the neighborhood to retire... As a person who did not play the games, this is a delight, and you don't really need to know too much about it beyond the TV show's background information about the world.

Fic: Soldier's Heart by Alex51324 (part 2 of the Halo Effect series) - in progress
Link: https://archiveofourown.org/works/21947791
Series Link: https://archiveofourown.org/series/1435963
Fandom: Downton Abbey
Pairing: Thomas Barrow/OMC
Author's Summary: (For the series, actually, since it doesn't really make sense without part 1): The Halo Effect is the tendency for a positive impression in one area to produce a more generous or optimistic interpretation of ambiguous information in other areas.When Thomas rescues Lady Mary from the nefarious attentions of Turkish houseguest Kemal Pamuk, his employers and coworkers begin to see him differently...and Things Get Better. A Season One AU diverging from canon in Episode 3, The One Where The Turkish Gentleman Dies in Mary's Bed. Part 2: Soldier's Heart, is a WWI focused off-shoot of the first work and involves original characters who are introduced in part one.


Why I love it: SO, Alex51324 is one of those authors I adore and I will read everything they ever write in any fandom. The only reason I have not yet done this, is so that I have something to read ahead of me on dark and dismal days. Their focus on in Downton Abbey is on Thomas Barrow, as the cynical asshole protagonist with a wounded heart, is so well grounded in canon and in careful, gentle steps towards a slightly different story that I cannot help but read and re-read my favorites ( I think I have already recc'd Thomas and the Society of Sentinels, which is also an AU) . Soldier's Heart is an epicly long fic, which is currently being edited and posted (aka, it's already complete, I believe, so I feel okay about recc'ing it not as a WIP)  - it focuses on Thomas Barrow in WWI, pining after a sweetheart and eventually suffering tragedy and going to war. It's very well written and feels very pragmatic, and if you like Thomas Barrow and think Canon Did Him Wrong, well, it's the fic for you.  (I have not seen the movie! I don't know how he comes out there!) 

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To be fair, some of the resistance is less a desire to remain in 2019 for any virtue of its own than a fervent wish to not have to get back to working in the office. I functionally took 3 strategic days off and got nearly 3 weeks vacation out of it!

Personal: 
I got to see my sister at her new house and she had a Major Life Event to celebrate with the family and extended relations before Christmas, and then we had a fairly chill Christmas at her house. Me and The Husbeast were in charge of food and catering and early morning walks for my dad's dog. It was delightfully quite and chill. 

Upon arriving home, we had some time to relax and hosted a small New Year's party. 

Most recently, we did a run on Ikea and came back with a wingback chair that I am honestly wild about, and got a sleeper couch for the small bedroom to give incoming guests a proper place to rest. Both are good purchases -  I'm still really pleased with the condo we ended up with and I think the small bedroom for guests is going to be lovely. 


Pop Culture Ramblings: Spoilers Marked

-I honestly just enjoyed the hell out of Knives Out (2019), which I know I mentioned at the time.  It really nailed that conspiratorial element of mysteries, where you-the-audience feel like you're putting the piece of the mystery together at the same time as the detective. In this case, there's an element where A Twist makes you think you've solved the main mystery and sets you off cheering for a character to solve a different puzzle, but you're never left behind - the movie wants you to follow along. It never breaks the rules of a good mystery, and there's a respect for the genre that I really approve of there. 

I have a ficlet idea in my head -SOME SPOILERS HERE-  (Marta/Benoit, slow burn, they stay in touch after the events of the film. He's too old for her, and he knows it - she deserves someone who sees bright and kind thing in her and values it because it mirrors something in them, not like Benoit, who loves the heart of her as someone who has come to see innocence as a rare treasure.  But, sometimes, he needs a medical opinion and he'll let himself call her for advice. Even if there's a doctor closer, even when she's demurs that she's outside her field of expertise - he just wants to hear her voice, sometimes, and if she tells him how things are going with her mom's case, and the lawsuit, and how Meg's doing in school. And then there's the trial, of course, and his testimony is clear and comprehensive and he stays in a hotel on the other side of town, but they have dinner at her home and Marta's mother makes shrimp and they talk until all hours. And eventually Marta decides that the publishing company needs to take on new writers, so she asks Benoit to read some of the manuscripts she receives, and they talk long into the night over the phone and Benoit cups the phone to his ear to listen to her talk about pacing and plot and poison and he can see perfectly how her lips shape the sounds.) that I'm probably never going to write. 

-I finished the first season of The Witcher! Apparently all I need to like Henry Cavill is to visually make him as unlike Superman as possible. (He was, in my opinion, a terrible Superman because he lacks the fundamental earnestness and unflinching compassion of Superman - like Mr. Rogers with laser beams.) I'm not sure I would recommend the Witcher, tho I enjoyed it tremendously - I don't know that the plot holds up if you don't have a background with the games or books. While I think the worldbuilding is actually quite interesting, for a lot of show the screen is too damn close to black and white for it to really have an impact - visually, I mean, it's very monochrome.

I keep meaning to finish The Crown and The Mandalorian. 

I have seen Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker. It has cemented my belief that any film JJ Abrams directs has more to do with any other project by JJ Abrams than the source material from which it arose. Overall, I was disappointed. 

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I highly recommend it, and when you have seen it, go and listen to the Overinvested discussion of it. - Here:  
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 I have purchased the whole of Hannibal (Tv series) and am now slowly watching thru all the special features.  Some notes:

- I deeply appreciate Bryan Fuller's stated distaste for showing rape and sexualized violence against women in crime shows, and I honestly think that is part of the reason why I deeply just *trust* this show.

- Bryan Fuller is at least as into the Frances Dolarhyde/Reba romance as I am and dang, that's deeply sweet and fucked up.

- Richard Armitage is a fucking delight.  Rutina Wesley is MORE OF A DELIGHT.

-I am planning to rewatch from the first season with all the commentary. 

In real life, it has stopped snowing at last, and the aftermath of the snow is annoying as fuck but not a real surprise. We're going to have to get the car out again, sometime, but for now there's quite a bit of snow left on it. Oh, well.

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